"Oh yeah... I reflect on my actions and learn from my mistakes." That is a phrase that many claim is true, but I wonder if it really happens. After thinking this over, I believe many people (teachers, parents, and students alike) confuse the process of reflection and self-reflection.
Now wait a second, Teach! Is there really even a difference?! I believe so!
Reflection is simply the act of looking back on past events or interactions with others. We look at the events and people involved, begin to draw conclusions, and make plans for how it all could of been improved if OTHERS would have done it differently.
On the other hand, self-reflection keeps the focus on yourself! It is less about what others have done and more importantly focused on what I could have done to do or be better in the situation. Considering that I am the only human that I can control 100% of the time, I find this the best approach when dealing with the circumstances around me.
I find that because of this difference, self-reflection will lead to more growth for you as a person. In thinking of ways to improve yourself, avoiding the need to place the blame for your problems elsewhere, you build a solid foundation from which to own your life instead of depending on others.
So as we get back into the routines of the school year and dealing with our students and curriculum, are you looking for ways to strengthen yourself and become a better educator (self-reflection), or do you prefer to seek out parents, administrators, students, or policies to blame for your problems (reflection)?
Whether you own your situation and fix it or throw your hands up and look for someone to blame, life will go on, but wouldn't it feel better knowing you have some control over it?
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