Reflection vs. Self-reflection

"Oh yeah... I reflect on my actions and learn from my mistakes." That is a phrase that many claim is true, but I wonder if it really happens. After thinking this over, I believe many people (teachers, parents, and students alike) confuse the process of reflection and self-reflection.

Now wait a second, Teach! Is there really even a difference?! I believe so!

Reflection is simply the act of looking back on past events or interactions with others. We look at the events and people involved, begin to draw conclusions, and make plans for how it all could of been improved if OTHERS would have done it differently.

On the other hand, self-reflection keeps the focus on yourself! It is less about what others have done and more importantly focused on what I could have done to do or be better in the situation. Considering that I am the only human that I can control 100% of the time, I find this the best approach when dealing with the circumstances around me.

I find that because of this difference, self-reflection will lead to more growth for you as a person. In thinking of ways to improve yourself, avoiding the need to place the blame for your problems elsewhere, you build a solid foundation from which to own your life instead of depending on others.

So as we get back into the routines of the school year and dealing with our students and curriculum, are you looking for ways to strengthen yourself and become a better educator (self-reflection), or do you prefer to seek out parents, administrators, students, or policies to blame for your problems (reflection)?

Whether you own your situation and fix it or throw your hands up and look for someone to blame, life will go on, but wouldn't it feel better knowing you have some control over it?

My Mission Field and My Art...

The summer is almost over, and my thoughts have started to wander back to my upcoming mission trip. That's right... I just referred to my job teaching middle school as a mission trip! :)

...But, isn't that the best way to describe it? This annual, nine-month long trip is a big part of my life, and I give it as much energy and thought as I can spare from my family, my first priority. I love spending time with and helping the locals (middle school students) to visualize and strive for a better future, and I truly hope that teachers, as well as other professionals, can say the same for their outlooks on work!

In preparing for this school year, I have also been thinking about the idea of leaving a legacy and what that means. This is probably not an uncommon thought for most people because, no matter the person, at some point you begin to wonder what your life was worth, what you will leave behind for others, or how your friends and family will remember you.

I have thought of this before and realized that beyond my wife and kid... my students will be a large portion of the proof that I have done something useful with my life.

While some of you might find that depressing, it gives me a sense of focus, frees me from being weighed down with frivolous matters, and makes sure my energy is used on things that will matter in the long run.

Therefore, my classroom is more than a collection of tables and books... it's my workshop, and the students are my paints. I only hope, in the end, I will be remembered as the creator of true masterpieces and not some graffiti on a bathroom stall. :)